Watching our parents get older can be difficult. Our parents are the ones who made sure we were safe and secure, who advised us and who we looked up to. They have always been there for us.

As we become adults and parents ourselves we can see our parents are ageing. Frequently the roles and responsibilities change to the extent that the child effectively takes on the job of guardian of their parents. It may become obvious that our parents need help and advice to plan their finances and in preparing their estate.

They may need to be encouraged to seek out professional advice to help them sort out their affairs properly. It may be difficult and even uncomfortable to embark on such a discussion especially as it involves acknowledging the ‘potential’ of dying. There is the risk that it will look like the child is trying to manipulate the distribution of the estate. Nothing changes the fact that is is a very important conversation to have.

Estate planning really must be completed sooner rather than later before your parents reach a point where that are unable to effectively plan by themselves. Sometimes Alzheimer’s disease or dementia can rob them of mental abilities and accidents can bring about incapacitation.

A Lasting Power of Attorney can be established for each parent so that their affairs, both financial and potentially medical, can be managed in their interests and the interests of the family, should they lose capacity.

Any good estate planning must include wills. The wills serve to establish both the distribution of the assets in the estate and who gets to do it, as nominated executors. Having well drafted wills in place will also help prevent any additional problems between family members at at time when they will be dealing with the aftermath of the bereavement.

A difficult discussion for you to initiate but you will be contributing to your parents peace of mind which in turn will make their remaining years more fulfilling. It really does make sense for you to encourage them to look for estate planning advice while they are still in a position to do something about it.

If you would like some advice or to arrange a visit please can call 01225 582582 or 07942 959599 or use our contact page and we will call you back.

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